LOVE Different

So excited for this month's series! Let me know if you want to attend!

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God Bless You all!  ♥

How to Know when I am REALLY in Love and When do I pursue a girl?

A lot of people are asking, “How do I know if it is really love?” This is such a tricky question because the heart is deceitful above all things. Some of us have that mushy feeling towards a girl and then find out later after a month  that the girl has some flaws, that we could actually change our minds instantly.


Some men once they are able to get the girl in bed instantly changes. The once sweet guy would no longer call or show up.


So how do you know that you are really in love?


The basic problem we have is that we equate love with feelings. Love is an emotion I know BUT love is also a decision. You don’t love base solely on feelings. That is why divorce rate and annulment cases are high because we feel that we have lost that loving feeling. We can’t live on that premise. Living on that premise that love is a feeling would imply that I could also leave my daddy duties when I don’t feel like loving my kids, or commit adultery legally because I don’t have feelings for my wife.


The world’s system has taught us to love with just our emotions. Look where it has gotten us into. Affairs, broken marriages, teen pregnancy, AIDS and the like.


LOVE IS A DECISION. We decide to love the girl we are going to marry. And that is how you know if you are ready. Are you willing to marry the girl you are pursuing. If you are not even thinking about marriage, forget courting a girl it is a waste of her time.


LOVE IS A DECISION which also means that when I court a girl, I have a game plan. I don’t just court the girl because I want to but I am going to lead her. The problem is most men can’t even lead themselves and they put other girls into their mess.Ladies you have to be discerning. You can’t fall for the charms or the looks – ask the guy his game plan.




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Source  http://www.actlikeaman.org/love-pursue-girl/

Thoughts about being SINGLE...

Singleness can strengthen our inward character and qualities. It is the time to gain the strength to stand alone and the time to discover His gentle arms of love. Singleness also allows time to focus on practical preparation - a time to discover and develop one's talents and life skills... and how to use it for the Lord.




Singleness is a time to seek God with an undivided and undistracted heart.  Being single is an opportunity to discover who God has made us to be and what He has called us to in this life.




Singleness is the best time to bless others as much as possible :)

How can you know that you already found THE ONE?

If the friendship or relationship is drawing us closer to God and producing godly fruit in our lives, that is a way of knowing that it might be something God Himself has put together.


But if the relationship is drawing us away from God and other priorities, we need to seriously re-evaluate things.

What a REAL Guy Wants...

1. A woman who has mystery - who guards her heart and isn't easy to get


2. A woman with backbone - someone who has high standards


3. A woman who is focused on God and isn't easily distracted by men


4. A woman who doesn't throw herself at guy, but allows the guy to win her heart over time

What kind of woman are you???

Thank You 2011

In less than 6 hours, I'll bid goodbye to 2011 and will welcome 2012 with open arms... I am thankful for everything that had happened this 2011, good or bad, happy or sad, I know it's all for my own good.


The Lord has been so good and faithful, I just cant describe how thankful I am for everything that He has done and continually doing in my life, it such a humbling experience. 


To wrap up my 2011, here's a short summary of my 2011 adventure : 


* Sinulog Festival in Cebu
* UP Fair
* Puerto Princesa, Palawan trip
* Ice Skating at MOA (what a kid in me)
* Boxing moments in VisMin (Cebu, Bacolod, Iloilo, Zamboanga, Davao)
* Cobra Ironman in CamSur
* Cobra Dragon Boat Regatta and Tampa Bay events
* VCF (such a blessing! Thank you Aris)
* VGroup 
* Vietnam Trip

* Great people I've met and spent my time with from all around the world

I look forward to seeing greater and bigger things this 2012.

Praying to hear the sweeter song and seeing the beautiful side of love. ♥ 

Happy New year to all!

HCMC Vietnam : Saigon City Tour

Vietnam Day 3 (December 4, 2011) : Saigon City Tour


*The Notre Dame Cathedral
*The General Post Office
*Binh Tay Market